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it is truly a crime and a blight that i cannot shapeshift


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i actually cried in my therapy appointment today which was... upsetting. i don't like to cry in front of people. i don't think i've ever even cried in front of my partner?? but it just... happened. 'cause we were talking about bigger existential questions bc my current situation is sort of on hold until we're done w/our vacation

n the general question was "are you happy?" to which i had to say yes-- but no, not really, if you look closely instead of looking at a big picture

but i just. broke down over struggling w/what i think is an undiagnosed attention disorder. executive dysfunction, memory problems, attention span issues... its so much but i feel so stupid 'cause i just can't function like a "normal" person should

and i guess i'm still just... mad. or upset. that these problems were noticed in me as a child but nothing was done about it. its too late now to do anything about it i'm grown and on my own and now i have to figure it out myself

but i'm still just...

i wish i'd been helped


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draws new design instead of drawing one of my many established OCs as planned......

well he's here now 'n i dunno who he is, where he goes, or what he's gonna do but that'll come later


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draws new design instead of drawing one of my many established OCs as planned......

well he's here now 'n i dunno who he is, where he goes, or what he's gonna do but that'll come later


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he posed himself n i just went with it, really


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more experimentin' in csp~ this time with deskri


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testin out coloring in CSP 'cause i may?? start using it more instead of sai??


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not to be contraversial but if you support sex workers (as you should) but act like kinks are the invention of the devil himself you might want to revaluate some shit 


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was chattin w/my mom over the weekend / today bc y'know, camping n all that

she's always been p supportive but ever since i came out and one of my siblings started using neutral pronouns she's been more invested in like, knowing whats up w/the queer community and specifically the trans community etc. she'll sometimes ask my opinion about things bc she wants to learn more which is nice

she let loose that i'd been dysphoric since i was 8?? i don't really remember a lot abt my childhood bc my memory is Shitty but that was the first i'd heard of it - god. esp since my dysphoria didn't Really kick in for me 'til i hit puberty, as far as i knew.

but another thing she was talkin about was my lil brother - he's in school (first one of us to go to an actual School at his age) and has really bad social anxiety but his teacher is helping him with it

and the way she describes it p much fits my life to a T... and she can see that now

i really wish that stuff like anxiety was more... commonly known about when i was a kid

bc now i have to figure out how to deal with this myself and i don't really have mentors to help me with it

i know its not really her fault (my mom's, or my dad's) that they weren't really equipped to help me with those things growing up but i can't help but feel a little... sad. bc there was so much more i could've done if i'd been given the proper tools to manage my anxiety, and then later my depression...

every so often she'll drop a bomb like that - where she knew i had x symptom or suspected y thing about me - but never did anything about it and i just.

have to take a deep mental breath. and not ask WHY.

its done, im all grown up. i gotta deal with it now. i love her, and my dad, they're wonderful parents and i'm lucky to have them

they just really shoulda gotten better parenting preparation. but they were 18 in the 90s and in tennessee. of course they didn't get good help. neither of their parents were good parents, either.


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unrequited crushes suck

[keii, koji, both he/him]


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